00:00 — Open
00:36 — Welcome, and the grid: on your mark, get set, go
01:45 — Meet Dr. Zach Wagner
04:10 — On your mark: Cultivating Character That Counts — what “virtue” means
06:25 — The nine fruit of the Spirit
08:13 — Start with the heart
13:02 — “God likes you” — the delighting love underneath everything
17:25 — Perfecting love, accepting love, delighting love
22:25 — Welcome back — peace, and men and anger
24:25 — Peace is not passivity
25:31 — The shoes in the doorway: patience and gentleness in real time
30:31 — After you’ve raised your voice — “will you forgive me?”
31:24 — Kindness: entering her suffering
34:06 — The stolen bike
35:58 — The who-what-when-where-why-how grid for empathy
37:37 — Go: pick one fruit and work it for a week
40:07 — Where to find Zach
41:00 — Sign-off, and a new way to partner with The Dad Whisperer
Cultivating Character that Counts (with Dr. Zach Wagner)